Thursday Open Thread
August 1, 2013 6:55 AM - Cobble B. Hiller

August 1, 2013 6:56 AM - InsertSnappyNameHere

are those flowers?
Edited at August 1, 2013 6:56 AM
August 1, 2013 7:01 AM - Cobble B. Hiller
Yes, they're freesia. Hmm, but if you can't tell, perhaps I should change the pic.
Edited at August 1, 2013 7:04 AM
August 1, 2013 7:05 AM - dibs
August 1, 2013 7:10 AM - InsertSnappyNameHere
it could just be my crappy eyesight coupled with the fact that i'm still half asleep :-)
August 1, 2013 7:10 AM - Cobble B. Hiller
I almost chose this one...but I wanted rain & flowers.
August 1, 2013 7:11 AM - Cobble B. Hiller
I also liked this one, for it's impressionist painting qualities.
Edited at August 1, 2013 7:11 AM
August 1, 2013 7:12 AM - InsertSnappyNameHere
last one def looks like a painting.
Edited at August 1, 2013 7:12 AM
August 1, 2013 8:04 AM - Cobble B. Hiller
Arkady may be right about veggies after all...
August 1, 2013 8:22 AM - Partridge
Good morning. Pretty wet flowers above. Is it going to rain today?
Edited at August 1, 2013 8:22 AM
August 1, 2013 8:30 AM - Donatella
It is supposed to... 80% chance of thunderstorms all day...
Edited at August 1, 2013 8:30 AM
August 1, 2013 8:34 AM - Partridge
Thank you, Dona.

How's tricks?
August 1, 2013 8:45 AM - Deleted
Nice flowers in the background here...
Edited at August 1, 2013 8:45 AM
August 1, 2013 8:45 AM - dibs
Rain tonight and tomorrow hear in the New England states.
August 1, 2013 8:46 AM - rf
Wow, what a beautiful baby!
August 1, 2013 8:47 AM - Deleted
That is a picture of a baby :)
Edited at August 1, 2013 8:47 AM
August 1, 2013 8:48 AM - Partridge
August 1, 2013 8:48 AM - Deleted
So is this.
Edited at August 1, 2013 8:48 AM
August 1, 2013 8:50 AM - dibs
Snowden granted temporary asylum in Russia
August 1, 2013 8:52 AM - Deleted
Saw that Dave. Hope he likes vodka and potatoes. What else do they eat in Russia, borscht?
August 1, 2013 8:58 AM - Cobble B. Hiller
Yummy sweet babyness!! So when do we get to see pics of randi's? ; )
Edited at August 1, 2013 8:58 AM
August 1, 2013 8:58 AM - Slope4Eva
Oh my, so beautiful!!!!!!
August 1, 2013 9:21 AM - Arkady
PSA - Eva!! CG has asked me to ask you to please check your email.
August 1, 2013 9:23 AM - Deleted
nice lookin kid!
August 1, 2013 9:25 AM - Slope4Eva
Thanks, Arkady, I did see it. I'll get back to him.
August 1, 2013 9:27 AM - Deleted
Randi appreciates all the pictures of flowers.
August 1, 2013 9:28 AM - Deleted
PS: cute baby, Randi.
August 1, 2013 9:36 AM - Deleted
interesting article/vid about the militarization of police
August 1, 2013 9:40 AM - Deleted
I am happy your baby isn't ugly, Randi.

It's funny when people say ALL babies are beautiful. They are not. Much like grown ups, there are hot people, attractive people, blah ordinary people, and fuggos.

August 1, 2013 10:00 AM - Deleted
August 1, 2013 10:03 AM - petebklyn
seems not only city-boy tourists like benson have boat navigation problems at Lake George:
LAKE GEORGE, N.Y. (AP) ó The longtime mayor of a tourist village on a popular Adirondack lake says no one was hurt when he ran his motor boat into a rock during a nighttime excursion.
August 1, 2013 10:04 AM - DeLepp
rand, congrats on the adorable bundle of joy.
Edited at August 1, 2013 10:04 AM
August 1, 2013 10:04 AM - kazootite
I want one.

August 1, 2013 10:09 AM - Slope4Eva
Kazoo, you have at least one adult child, no? Any grandkids/near future? I've got 6, but only saw the first on a regular basis. The other step thinks no one is capable of caring for her's so we've not spent too much time with them.
August 1, 2013 10:14 AM - Deleted
My wife cannot wait to have a grandchild.
August 1, 2013 10:16 AM - Deleted
How many kids do you have Benson?

Rob - thanks?!
August 1, 2013 10:26 AM - Slope4Eva
Off the top off my head, I think most of the parents here all have one daughter, lol. DCB has the boys.
Edited at August 1, 2013 10:26 AM
August 1, 2013 10:34 AM - pepper
That's one gorgeous baby, randi!
August 1, 2013 10:36 AM - Deleted
Randi: one daughter, who will soon turn 29.
August 1, 2013 10:37 AM - MontroseMorris
Beautiful baby, Randi!
Edited at August 1, 2013 10:37 AM
August 1, 2013 10:47 AM - Arkady
Very pretty baby, Ran. Most newborns look like Winston Churchill.
August 1, 2013 10:53 AM - Legion
Good Morning.

Great baby photos randolph. Very cute,
especially the one with the flowers in the back.
Edited at August 1, 2013 10:53 AM
August 1, 2013 10:59 AM - Legion
There are certain photos that bring back a rush of feelings
and memories. They become precious momentos.
I have one of my son on a trip to Cape Cod where he's standing
next to a small tree and he's 3 years old.
He's not quite smiling but has an expression more of looking
at the camera and past us.

For some reason, because I know he'll never be that little person again
and perhaps because it seems he's almost looking off into a distant future
beyond me, I feel a bittersweetness that never dissolves.
August 1, 2013 11:01 AM - Deleted
"Most newborns look like Winston Churchill."


thanks everyone.

rob- i looked at diehipster, that shit is funny. no wonder you wanna relocate.
August 1, 2013 11:03 AM - bxgrl
Just beautiful, randi!
August 1, 2013 11:04 AM - Deleted
like this!

"When hipsters start painting fruits and vegetables on walls of industrial neighborhoods, you know weíre doomed. "

August 1, 2013 11:20 AM - Deleted
August 1, 2013 11:22 AM - MontroseMorris
Although some aspects of hipsterism are certainly up for ridicule, it gets tired pretty quickly. I would think having a site that does nothing but mock people all day, every day, would wither out and die, itself, as it did. I mean, what's the purpose? Sitting there and making fun of people all day? Feeling superior that you aren't one of them? Seems to me there's some jealousy there.

Besides which, all that ragging on hipsters doesn't mean squat. They don't read the site, and if they do, they don't care what people think about them. Many of them may be doing mockable things like selling pickles, but that pickle maker is laughing all the way to the bank, and is paying his or her rent, and providing for their families, and living the way he/she wants to live. Even the guy painting veggies on the wall is a happy camper, doing what he wants to do.

Some jealous blogger is foaming at the mouth, along with his acolytes - they wish.
August 1, 2013 11:24 AM - ilovestoops
cute baby, randi!
and ark, you nailed it about the Churchill look!
August 1, 2013 11:28 AM - Deleted
"it gets tired pretty quickly."

yeah the guy can only come up with one post a day it looks like.
August 1, 2013 11:31 AM - Deleted
i used to browse it once in a while. pretty repetitive - he just cherry picks posts from reddit, gothamist, imgur and steals the best comments.
August 1, 2013 11:31 AM - Deleted
i used to browse it - very repetitive, not to mention he just steals posts from reddit, gothamist, imgur and regurgitates the comments.
August 1, 2013 11:37 AM - ilovestoops
There's no way you can understand this if you aren't from a place like I'm from, but the most exciting, thrilling event was when we won state in class A football in 1963. There have been more exciting and important events in my life but I don't think the actual "feeling" of that night has ever been surpassed. The 50th anniversary reunion is this weekend. I'm sending the organizer, Joe Bob, the following message:
"Sorry I canít be there but Iíve gotten involved in some local political activities that are taking up all my time. There are about 17 candidates for mayor, including the Republican, Democratic, and Rent Is Too Damn High parties. I'm sexting all of them. Iím trying my best service them equally but it takes a lot of time.

So far Iíve wanted to remain anonymous so am sexting under the name Sydney Naugahydes. Hoping to get some interest from film makers, then Iíll let them know who I am."

August 1, 2013 11:47 AM - Partridge
Haha! What a riot you are, Stoops!
August 1, 2013 11:58 AM - bxgrl
Gosh Stoops- we didn't realize you've been so busy!
Edited at August 1, 2013 11:58 AM
August 1, 2013 11:58 AM - Deleted
animals twerkin
Edited at August 1, 2013 11:58 AM
August 1, 2013 12:09 PM - wasder
Arkady! Sorry for being a day late but very happy birthday to you!
August 1, 2013 12:15 PM - Deleted
O shit the was
August 1, 2013 12:19 PM - bxgrl
Hey Wasder!
Edited at August 1, 2013 12:19 PM
August 1, 2013 12:31 PM - Adam Dahill
Arkady- I'm sorry I didn't get a chance to log in and wish you a happy birthday yesterday. Happy belated today!!! What's new? Are you getting a lot of use out of your pool this summer?
Edited at August 1, 2013 12:31 PM
August 1, 2013 12:39 PM - Partridge
Greetings Adam and Wasder. Nice to have some new old blood here.
August 1, 2013 12:43 PM - Deleted

I think you said at one point that your wife is Japanese. Just curious: was your daughter born with the birth mark that is unique to the Japanese? I believe it is on the lower back, and disappears later on.
August 1, 2013 12:45 PM - Deleted
"Sorry I canít be there but Iíve gotten involved in some local political activities that are taking up all my time. There are about 17 candidates for mayor, including the Republican, Democratic, and Rent Is Too Damn High parties. I'm sexting all of them. Iím trying my best service them equally but it takes a lot of time. "

Stoops. That is fine, but please spare us the bikini shots!
August 1, 2013 12:45 PM - Arkady
Hey, Was & Adam! Thanks! Yep, pool's seeing a lot of action this summer! (Lucky pool.)
Edited at August 1, 2013 12:45 PM
August 1, 2013 12:49 PM - ilovestoops
wasder - sorry I missed your band the other week but keep us posted - hope to make it another time

adam - hello! finished with the house yet?

benson - no bikinis for me - you're safe!
August 1, 2013 12:55 PM - Adam Dahill
Haven't really started on the house. Cleaned it up nice but no major work done. I've been so busy with work and I may just have to hire an architect even though I really didn't want to.

Arkady- I'll post pics later of the inflatable pool we put up for 4th of July. I didn't leave my property or change out of my bathing suit for 4 days. It was a mini vacation in Crown Heights.
August 1, 2013 1:04 PM - bxgrl
Love to know what's going on at my old place behind you, adam. Are they doing anything?
Edited at August 1, 2013 1:04 PM
August 1, 2013 1:08 PM - Deleted
"Love to know what's going on at my old place behind you, adam. Are they doing anything?"

Still cleaning out the cat litter.

August 1, 2013 1:09 PM - Deleted
good ol zimmerman - still just cruising around with a gun for no particular reason
August 1, 2013 1:21 PM - Arkady
Probably on his way to give a speech at a Klan rally.
August 1, 2013 1:24 PM - Deleted
August 1, 2013 1:27 PM - Deleted
Although some aspects of hipsterism are certainly up for ridicule, it gets tired pretty quickly.

As do posts day after day cheerleading overpriced housing stock along with pretty much everything you write about? I havent even been to the new site yet really, I kinda forgot for a second it wasnt What's site. I didnt post on diehipster much, probably won't because it's sort of a waste of time to post anywhere on the internet really.

And LOL @ you thinking someone is paying their inflated rents and supporting a family by jarring pickles on their roof. please.

August 1, 2013 1:30 PM - rf
Benson, are you talking about Mongolian spots?

My daughter had a big one but it's completely gone now.
Edited at August 1, 2013 1:30 PM
August 1, 2013 1:38 PM - bxgrl
Benson- in that case, I'll ask Adam again in 3 years.
August 1, 2013 1:55 PM - rf
We are leaving for our multi-city, multi-PLUSA college visit trip! Wish us luck! My kid will be driving as soon as we leave the city limits (per the terms of her junior learner's permit); wish *me* luck!
August 1, 2013 1:58 PM - Deleted

Not sure. When I used to work for a Japanese company, they would always tell me about this beauty mark that they were born with on their lower back, which was unique to them. I never did any investigations.
August 1, 2013 2:04 PM - petebklyn
have a safe trip.
Oil company is back again today and hopefully will help lessen the smell. He is cleaning cement floor with muriatic acid.
August 1, 2013 2:05 PM - pepper
Great trip, rf. Good luck to you and your nerves...
August 1, 2013 2:11 PM - Partridge
Have a safe and enjoyable trip, rf. Remember she doesn't HAVE to drive just because she CAN drive. :)
August 1, 2013 2:19 PM - Arkady
Can't you rent a car w/ dual controls???
August 1, 2013 2:22 PM - sixyearsandcounting
Academia is a small, insular world. Three acquaintences of mine have shown up in the archives in the past few days. I did a double-take at one - an Egyptian woman who was a classmate at Georgetown, always veiled with very very conservative clothing, nothing form-fitting. She was wearing tight jeans, a button-down shirt, and no veil. I had never seen so much as a strand of her hair. She once didn't come to a party I hosted celebrating the Egyptian Revolution because she didn't want to be in a place with alcohol. We made lunch plans for tomorrow (it's Ramadan, so she's not fasting).
Edited at August 1, 2013 2:22 PM
August 1, 2013 2:25 PM - MontroseMorris
Rob, once again you prove you know very little about me, what I care about, or even what I write about. I am the last person you'll find cheerleading overpriced housing stock. For someone who hates the internet, and hates this site so much, you certainly spend an awful lot of time here.

And how do you know someone isn't paying their rent from a pickle business? Done any research on the subject? Or just talking bs again?

Oh, and my writing about things no one cares about pays my bills. The pickle maker and I have something in common after all.
Edited at August 1, 2013 2:25 PM
August 1, 2013 2:27 PM - MontroseMorris
RF, see you on the way back! By then she will be Danica Patrick. Look out!
August 1, 2013 2:43 PM - Deleted
good luck RF!
August 1, 2013 2:48 PM - Partridge
My pickleman friend is doing fine. Lives well, has wife and kids, goes on vacations and shares his pickles. I would be more than happy with his existence.
August 1, 2013 2:49 PM - sixyearsandcounting
There is also a security guard here who looks like Benson, but a foot taller, a decade older, and with a British accent.
August 1, 2013 3:04 PM - Arkady
Cognitive dissonance much, 6?
August 1, 2013 3:09 PM - bxgrl
RF- looking forward to seeing you. Just give us a heads up on the dates.

Edited at August 1, 2013 3:09 PM
August 1, 2013 3:35 PM - sixyearsandcounting
(I may be behind the curve here, nothing new...)
August 1, 2013 3:40 PM - Adam Dahill
bxgirl- No work done on your old house yet. The owner is stuck in landmarks hell apparently. I think they are going to condo it out and build out the back. Not 100%.
I'm still trying to get him to remove the dead tree that fell down and is leaning into my backyard and my neighbors.
Anyone got a good architect that they recommend to me. You see the same people on bstoner commenting but they are super expensive and I don't need that much done really.
August 1, 2013 3:44 PM - bxgrl
Adam- A good friend of ours is an architect, and a really great person. I'll have MM email you his name. You'll love him. And you could also talk to Morgan.

The other tree finally fell? MM had a huge old locust cut down before she moved- that one was already leaning on the building next door. The tree guy told us that if you call Verizon and tell them the tree is on the phone lines and about to bring them down, they may come and take care of it.
August 1, 2013 3:47 PM - Arkady
6 - It'll be interesting to see MM's reaction to that map: I have a feeling that a lot of the dates are off & are just a function of the City's filling in a random number for large chunks of houses.
Adam - Slopey's away for a week but I think he used an architect he was happy w/.
August 1, 2013 3:57 PM - MontroseMorris
Six, the interactive color map is interesting, and must have cost a fortune. Unfortunately, they got their data from city records, and many of the dates are really inaccurate. I clicked on some buildings that I know are from a certain date, and they are off by 30 years. Some of that info is available from designation reports, so there really isn't any excuse for landmarked blocks to be innaccurate, but they are. I know no one cares except architecture geeks, but still.....
August 1, 2013 3:58 PM - MontroseMorris
Jinx, Arkady!
August 1, 2013 3:58 PM - Deleted
best craigslist ad ever (this week?)
August 1, 2013 3:59 PM - Deleted
It's a plush queen-sized Simmons Beautyrest. It's three years old, and feels like you're sleeping on a fucking cloud - even when you're unknowingly sleeping next to a lying cheater. In a bad relationship and have to lie next to the constant reminder that you didn't go to grad school so that you could move and get engaged? Then this is the bed for you, it will get you to fucking REM and for 6-8 hours every night you'll forget that you're sleeping next to a sociopath. There are no stains, and this thing hasn't seen action in a while.
August 1, 2013 4:06 PM - sixyearsandcounting
lulz dh
August 1, 2013 4:18 PM - Deleted
"The owner is stuck in landmarks hell"

August 1, 2013 4:26 PM - Arkady
dh - I wonder if that's the guy who found a note taped to the underside of his toilet seat. It was from a one-night-stand a girl had had: she told him the following morning that she was 'in a relationship' & he left a tell-all for the cuckold.
August 1, 2013 4:29 PM - Deleted
haha arkady - that's awesome
August 1, 2013 4:52 PM - Donatella
There is an expression in Japanese "Oshiri ga aoi" your butt is blue which has the same meaning as wet behind the ears. Refers to immaturity. It refers to the spot Japanese are born with in the lower small of the back. It almost looks like a little black and blue mark. Many other indigenous peoples have it -- for example Mexicans and South American "Indians".
August 1, 2013 4:59 PM - Donatella
I have had a tiring and frustrating day today. I am trying to regroup. I am doing better than R who has had a string of calamities which are almost comic. It all started with the boat's hull filling up with water. Is it a full moon? Thank God none of this is serious.

Cute kid Randi. Good work.
August 1, 2013 5:23 PM - MontroseMorris
If the owner of my former home is in landmarks hell, it's because he wants to put a large extension like my next door neighbor's, on the back. That house was built that way originally, and is the only one in the group with an extension. There is a large gap on NY Avenue that allows one to see into those backyards, so any extension he wants to build can be seen from the street. He's never going to get one as big as the one my neighbor had, if for no other reason than by doing so, he's cutting off the light to both neighbors on either side. He could probably get a small extension if he goes through landmarks correctly. He knows how to do that, because he renovated another building on my block, also landmarked, and he did a great job.
Edited at August 1, 2013 5:24 PM
August 1, 2013 5:50 PM - Arkady
MM - Someone across the street from me is trying to do that too & the yard is over 100' long so he has the FAR. His neighbors don't want a 30', 4-floor extension & are trying to fight it. What are the best agencies for them to hit?
August 1, 2013 6:00 PM - MontroseMorris
Your community board is the first place. Since you are in a landmarked area, all alterations of that kind are supposed to be presented to the Land Use committee even before the LPC sees it. The CB's recommendations, yea or nay, are factored into LPC's decisions. If his neighbors don't want this, they need to write letters, take pictures, etc, and present them to the CB. That happened in CHN regarding another oversized extension, and the owner ended up downsizing his plans. In his case, the extension ended up being the same size as originally planned but only two stories, not four. He was not happy, but it worked out in the end. We live in a crowded city, compromises have to be made. We also have to live next to our neighbors, why piss them off every day for the rest of your life? Makes no sense.
August 1, 2013 6:04 PM - Deleted
da fuq? sloooooowwwww day around here.
August 1, 2013 6:05 PM - Deleted
benson, she has that on her lower back/butt.

August 1, 2013 6:07 PM - MontroseMorris
In our case, Arkady, the homeowner and his architect made a presentation to the land use committee. I just happened to be there at that meeting. I didn't go to CB meetings all that often. He showed them what he wanted to do, explained why, and his architect had a rendering on a large foamboard. Unfortunately, the homeowner's architect was an arrogant jerk who acted as if this group of non-architect CB members were beneath his professional attention, and he pissed people off. Their proposal was rejected. He took it to LPC, and they rejected it too. When they tried again, with a scaled down version, the homeowner came alone. He passed easily, and LPC gave him their seal of approval as well.
August 1, 2013 6:08 PM - Arkady
Thanks, MM.
August 1, 2013 6:41 PM - Deleted
My daughter has impressively loud farts!
August 1, 2013 6:54 PM - Deleted
U need dis
August 1, 2013 7:17 PM - Deleted
Smart person vs hick homophobe email war!!
August 1, 2013 7:43 PM - InsertSnappyNameHere
email war was hysterical.

very few posts today. who knew there'd ever come a time when plusas had little or nothing to say? i think someone should call the devil to check on the temperatures in hell today.
August 1, 2013 7:51 PM - pepper
It's just that dave is on vacation is all...
August 1, 2013 7:52 PM - Deleted
Do y'all need chum?
Edited at August 1, 2013 7:52 PM
August 1, 2013 7:53 PM - Arkady
"No, I fucking won't, fag." Priceless!!!
August 1, 2013 7:59 PM - InsertSnappyNameHere
this is so my experience more often than not. watch this short vid til the end...effing awesome...
August 1, 2013 8:07 PM - pepper
yeah, the end of the email war was great; I also liked "...prefer the company of a woman two KFC family buckets away from upsetting the planet's rotational axis."
August 1, 2013 8:09 PM - pepper
lol, snappy
Edited at August 1, 2013 8:09 PM
August 1, 2013 8:16 PM - Deleted
Haha snapp!
August 1, 2013 8:17 PM - InsertSnappyNameHere
that guy had a lot of good one-liners. the best part is that he managed to maintain a sense of intelligence while basically telling the guy to go scratch.
August 1, 2013 8:20 PM - pepper
I'm tired today, snappy. Beer seems to make me very tired the next day. Not hungover, just tired...
August 1, 2013 8:24 PM - bxgrl
Working on a million different things today, snaps. And tired.
August 1, 2013 8:28 PM - InsertSnappyNameHere
i feel your pain. i fell asleep several times during a work meeting today. the woman prattled on for 1.5 hours straight. i wanted to leap out the window.
August 1, 2013 8:33 PM - pepper
Ooooops. Hope no one saw you... You must have had more pain than, i, though, coming off of a double feature...
August 1, 2013 8:38 PM - InsertSnappyNameHere
the pain was in my foot from boogying with the bartender :-) if they saw me, they said nothing. and if they had said something, i likely wouldn't have cared. i was sleepy and she was boring me!
August 1, 2013 8:40 PM - pepper
sorry about the boogy foot :o( the bartender was a good sport...
August 1, 2013 8:46 PM - Cobble B. Hiller

Soaked, cold, home.

BnH cooked yummy breakfast for dinner, a fave!
August 1, 2013 8:47 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
What's this about boogying with the bartender!
August 1, 2013 8:51 PM - pepper
Snappy had a brief, beer-fueled boogy interlude with the bartender last night. It was cute. She taught him "the lawnmower"....
Edited at August 1, 2013 8:51 PM
August 1, 2013 8:52 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
Btw, I was over on 4th Av this evening and saw a bar a couple doors down from The Mean Girls that new? Do we 'need' to try it?
Edited at August 1, 2013 8:53 PM
August 1, 2013 8:52 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
"She taught him "the lawnmower"...."

LOL! This I must see!
Edited at August 1, 2013 8:52 PM
August 1, 2013 8:53 PM - InsertSnappyNameHere
lol @ boogie foot!!!!

cobbs, you were missed last night!

the music was good, i couldn't sit still, the bartender was groovin' as well so we got up and shook a tail feather or two :-)
August 1, 2013 8:54 PM - InsertSnappyNameHere
we did the lawnmower, the boogie point, and the heart attack. twas fun :-)
August 1, 2013 8:54 PM - InsertSnappyNameHere
what's the name of the bar?
August 1, 2013 8:56 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
I'm sorry I missed it! Work has been wacky. : (
August 1, 2013 8:56 PM - Partridge
hi girls!
August 1, 2013 8:56 PM - pepper
You gotta "start it up", and then "mow the lawn"...
August 1, 2013 8:57 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
I can't remember, I mean I tried to remember, to mention it to you, of course, but I forgot. Which is not surprising in that I was fighting to stay dry in the torrential rain in the moment.
Edited at August 1, 2013 8:57 PM
August 1, 2013 8:57 PM - InsertSnappyNameHere
argh. cobbly, no good.
August 1, 2013 8:57 PM - InsertSnappyNameHere
howdy, ridgie!
August 1, 2013 8:58 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
Hey LP!
August 1, 2013 8:58 PM - pepper
Hey, hey, Part! Daytimers were slackers today... late night OT needs to make up for it...
August 1, 2013 8:59 PM - InsertSnappyNameHere
oh dear...i dunno how many posts i have in me. i'm pooped!
Edited at August 1, 2013 8:59 PM
August 1, 2013 9:00 PM - pepper
That was NOT A CHALLENGE, btw. I'm too tired, and the last time I accidentally did that, I paid for it the next day...
Edited at August 1, 2013 9:00 PM
August 1, 2013 9:01 PM - InsertSnappyNameHere
need to facetime mama snaps...brb...
August 1, 2013 9:02 PM - Partridge
Dave's vacay totally messes with the post count alright.
August 1, 2013 9:03 PM - pepper
yup, yup...
August 1, 2013 9:04 PM - Deleted
My sister found out today she has Nystalgus and was can't get a driver's license now because of it. I did some googling and it's an ocular neurological disorder that is part of fetal alcohol syndrome. :( Now she's super pissed and angry and mad at our mom (she's dead).
August 1, 2013 9:05 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
I'm here, and despite getting COMPLETELY SOAKED in the rain earlier, now that I've had dinner and a glass of wine, I'm feeling a bit perkier.

Have I mentioned that I got COMPLETELY SOAKED in the RAIN?!
August 1, 2013 9:08 PM - pepper
Dit you get caught in the grand deluge that happened around 7:45?
August 1, 2013 9:10 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
Si, I was leaving the doc...apparently I left just a moment too soon. The 4 block walk to Pacific Street entrance of the Atlantic Av sta. left me COMPLETELY SOAKED! (How wet was it, Cobble?)
Edited at August 1, 2013 9:16 PM
August 1, 2013 9:10 PM - InsertSnappyNameHere
dave and his 1% vacays...damn him!

cobbly, that stinks! and it was so windy, too. i got lucky as it only sprinkled as i was coming home.
August 1, 2013 9:11 PM - Partridge
Soaked, you said? That's sad.

Sorry to hear about your sister's problem, Rob.
August 1, 2013 9:11 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
It was so wet that the intersection of 4th Av and St. Marks was A LAKE!
August 1, 2013 9:14 PM - InsertSnappyNameHere
that part is usually where the trouble with water pools begins. gets scary sometimes.
August 1, 2013 9:16 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
I had to walk up the block to find an area shallow enough to cross. Oy.
August 1, 2013 9:17 PM - InsertSnappyNameHere
gotta bring your hip boots to that part of town when raining.
Edited at August 1, 2013 9:17 PM
August 1, 2013 9:18 PM - Deleted
Oops my bad, I forgot it's mean girls' first world problems hour. oy! such hard knock lives! :-/

August 1, 2013 9:19 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
14 minutes til rob started whinning. Wow, such restraint.
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August 1, 2013 9:19 PM - Partridge
Self fulfilling prophesy? You became wilted like a drenched freesia?
August 1, 2013 9:20 PM - InsertSnappyNameHere
ahem, ridgie!
August 1, 2013 9:20 PM - InsertSnappyNameHere
August 1, 2013 9:20 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
Nah, I knew it was going to rain, I just didn't know when or how much, but I suspected it might pour just as I was trudging around. Murphy's Law and all that.
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August 1, 2013 9:21 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
I experienced envy when I saw a woman in boots walking by me. : P
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August 1, 2013 9:23 PM - InsertSnappyNameHere
next time throw her down and take 'em off her feet, put 'em on and run like hell!
August 1, 2013 9:24 PM - Partridge
Well, all's well that ends well if the big strong man had breakfast ready for you. That's f'ing love!
August 1, 2013 9:25 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
Snort! I might have, but it was pretty clear she was roughly a size 7! ; )
August 1, 2013 9:25 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
It is love, and g*d bless him for it, because, as rob will tell you, I'm pretty unlovable.
August 1, 2013 9:27 PM - InsertSnappyNameHere
August 1, 2013 9:27 PM - Partridge
lol! We think so too!
August 1, 2013 9:28 PM - InsertSnappyNameHere
nutballs. the whole lot of ya!
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August 1, 2013 9:32 PM - InsertSnappyNameHere
i'm super snoozy. feel like i've been drugged.
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August 1, 2013 9:33 PM - pepper
well, have you been?

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August 1, 2013 9:33 PM - InsertSnappyNameHere
unless one of my coworkers slipped a roofie into my crystal light, nope!
August 1, 2013 9:35 PM - InsertSnappyNameHere
ok...gonna get horizontal. nitey nite ladies. sweet dreams to you all :-)
August 1, 2013 9:36 PM - Partridge
Heard a crazy story tonight of a former employee who I think the world of, falling victim to an abusive relationship. He has gotten himself out with few scars but it was a nutty and scary scene for a while.

Poor guy. He is amazing. Not sure how he could have allowed it to happen. He is a very confident, extremely attractive, super intelligent guy.
August 1, 2013 9:36 PM - pepper
night, night.
August 1, 2013 9:37 PM - Partridge
night-night, snaps.
August 1, 2013 9:37 PM - pepper
rob, sorry about you sister's diagnosis. Sucks!
August 1, 2013 9:43 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
I know of a woman, friend of a very close friend's friend, who gets beaten up regularly by her husband. They all live in Brooklyn Heights. And she eggs him on, telling him he's worthless, an actual loser, etc etc etc. And she keeps going back, won't leave him. Has plenty of friends to rely on, makes a decent living, could leave at literally anytime. Could leave for work and just not return. But no, she goes home, they get super drunk regularly, and she yells at him, and he beats her, she lies at work about walking into doors, etc to cover up the bruises, though no one believes her, and she goes home again, and again, and again. It's been years of hospital visits and police visitations, the works. It's shocking to me. She's a bright, educated, employed woman. It's a sickness on both parts.
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August 1, 2013 9:47 PM - pepper
Wow! That's some story, Cobble. Sad, really.
August 1, 2013 9:50 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
And I'm just giving you the crib notes version. The details I've heard make it even more shocking. You'd never guess it to meet her, as I have a couple times. I've never met the husband. They have a country house, and invited my friends, and just started fighting right in front of them, to the point that my friends were uncomfortable and wanted to leave but the couple told them to stay, and they did, and watched a really sick scene unfold until husband went to bed. And the woman - increasingly drunk - kept ranting and trying to get the husband to get out of bed and fight with her. I can't remember all the details, but it blew my mind.
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August 1, 2013 9:55 PM - pepper
I'm not even sure how to respond. Just sounds so bizarre and unreal...
August 1, 2013 9:59 PM - Partridge
Holy crap, Cobble! That is beyond comprehension.

The abuser in my story it constantly drunk too. In medical school. smart as a whip, I understand. Gets so drunk she pees on herself. Has done so in the presence of my young friend many times. Bizarre, I thought. I've known a few friend who often got wasted. Never saw them lose complete control.

August 1, 2013 10:09 PM - pepper
Both stories seem unreal to me... so yours is a woman physically abusing a man, Part?
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August 1, 2013 10:10 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
Yes, beyond comprehension. Unreal. It boggles the mind to think of it. I've mercifully never seen anyone lose physical control that way. Alcohol is usually involved.
August 1, 2013 10:20 PM - Partridge
Yes, Pep. Much more psychological abuse than physical, but that as well. Huge scenes, cops, hospitals, attempted suicides, psych wards. Her parents wouldn't come to the hospital to care for her. They told him to handle it. He was trying to get away and they made him stay. The two are in their mid 20's.

Things got so crazy, he got on a plane and left to his parents out of state. They were engaged and planning a wedding.
August 1, 2013 10:21 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
I'm so glad he had the self-preservation to leave. Just leave. There is a dynamic that develops that is very unhealthy, to put it mildly.

August 1, 2013 10:22 PM - Deleted
Some couples like to get drunk and beat each other up. It's really no one's business (unless there's kids involved). OoOoOOoO finally got my crystal light in the mail today

My work area. there's my secret coffee pot under my desk.

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August 1, 2013 10:23 PM - Deleted
this is where I spend 8 hours a day (I get up every 10 minutes though because I have ants in my pants and can't be asked to be in one seat for more than 10 minutes at a time)

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August 1, 2013 10:24 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
She needs help, I hope she gets/got it.
August 1, 2013 10:27 PM - pepper
There doesn't seem to be any room for your feet, rob! lol at the secret coffee maker set up...

August 1, 2013 10:28 PM - pepper
Yes, good on him that he had the sense to run away, Part. Still a really crazy story...
August 1, 2013 10:29 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
Rob, you do realize that that behavior is unacceptable, no? No one should experience that. Both parties need help.
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August 1, 2013 10:30 PM - Deleted
No need for room for my feet. There's a swing attached to the rafters that I sit on. lol, jk. there's room for my feet, that white bag I am not sure why was there.. that's where my feet normally god.

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August 1, 2013 10:31 PM - pepper
your feet are gods? eeeeeeeewwwwww....
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August 1, 2013 10:32 PM - Partridge
No, sadly. She is out of the country on a program for school during the summer.

Her parents demanded that my friend send them a check for a deposit they placed on a hall for the wedding because he broke the engagement. They were hoping to hell to pawn her off on him for eternity. He sent them a check for 1/2 of the cost.
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August 1, 2013 10:32 PM - Deleted
Of course it's unacceptable, but if both parties are okay with it, then it's no one's business. If people broke up every codependent couple there's be like zero couples left. LIke I said if kids are involved, that's different. If two people just like to beat each other up, well, that's all kinds of fucked up but it's on them. If it's just one sided abuse then that's even more fucked up. Some people get off on that shit though, sick yes. Any of my business? nope.

August 1, 2013 10:39 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
I'm so thankful to hear they aren't getting married. The parents are in deep denial or oblivious. It was worth writing the check. So sorry for your young friend.
August 1, 2013 10:40 PM - pepper
Her parents sound like some pieces of work too...
August 1, 2013 10:46 PM - Partridge
apple, tree, I guess.

He's doing well now from what I learned today. It has been about 2 months. I'm hoping he gets help. He needs to examine why he allowed this to go on as long as it did. They were only together for about 9 months. Why he went from dating to living with to domestic partnership to engaged in that quick a time with those warning signs is indicative of issues on his part.
August 1, 2013 10:50 PM - pepper
Glad to hear he's out of it and doing well, Part. You spoke with him today? or a common friend?
August 1, 2013 10:51 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
Wow. 9 mos. Yes, I hope he does spend some time regrouping after this.
August 1, 2013 10:52 PM - Partridge
His sister. She is thrilled to have him back in her life. Part of the abuse involved having him distance himself from her and all other loved ones.
August 1, 2013 10:55 PM - pepper
Gosh, sounds almost cultish. Oh, wait, hmmmm....
August 1, 2013 10:55 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
Pretty typical, from what I've seen.
August 1, 2013 10:55 PM - Donatella
One of my friends was getting hit by her husband. It was a long and complicated story and I actually liked her husband but he had a problem - a big one. He would get so angry and frustrated about everything. I knew him from Japan where they met. He is Canadian she is from China. She ran rings around him brains and talent wise - she was not an in your face person but he struggled with his career and she is an incredible businesswoman and made a fortune, is an accomplished artist, speaks 4 languages...... And he would hit her. She left him but now I think they are sort of together. She got really really depressed and I used to check in on her by phone for a while in Vancouver where they were. She is finally ok now.

I am really sorry about your sister rob.
August 1, 2013 10:57 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
Are you insinuating that the OT is a cult, pepper?! A cult of personalities?
August 1, 2013 11:04 PM - pepper
Well, Cobble, I'm pretty tired tonight, so not firing on all synapses, so I was just referring to the tactics that cults use vs. how abusive relationships work. But now that you mention it... no, I guess. We are all still free to associate with whomever we please,off OT, right? So I guess this place can't rightly be considered a cult. Phewwww!
August 1, 2013 11:08 PM - pepper
Oh, sweet heaven. No more burgers tonight!
August 1, 2013 11:09 PM - Partridge
You're not still thinking of going to Sarajevo are you? It's not right that you leave us. We need you here, Pep. We are your REAL friends. You don't want to hurt us, now do you???
August 1, 2013 11:10 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
Sorry, joke fell flat.

Yes, that's how cults operate. I have a cousin who is in a cult. Richer than g*d, lives in a scary gated community in FL. Wife thinks everyone should own a gun. Bonkers, the both of them.
August 1, 2013 11:11 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
Yes, pepper, if you continue to consort with that fellow, we won't like you anymore. You'll be kicked out of the mean girls club.
August 1, 2013 11:12 PM - Partridge
Oy, burgers and cult members in the family! Too much for this hour. Might need to get some zzzzzzzz soon.
August 1, 2013 11:13 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
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August 1, 2013 11:14 PM - Partridge
Good idea, Cobble. Threaten her with expulsion.
August 1, 2013 11:15 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
Yes, I'm pooping out soon, too. It's been a wacky weird couple days at work.
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August 1, 2013 11:16 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
Well, it's either expulsion or beatings, and I'm too old and tired for beatings. : P
August 1, 2013 11:17 PM - pepper
haha, no, Cobble, my "retort"" fell flat...

I have a number of cousins in and out of Scientology. Seems like one of the first things to go is familial and friend contact...
August 1, 2013 11:19 PM - Partridge
burgers below.
August 1, 2013 11:20 PM - pepper
Sorry, oldish complaint. The grill exhaust for the burger joint is on my patio. I've learned to live with it, but when they turn it off for the night, it is heaven...
August 1, 2013 11:22 PM - pepper
Ok, stick a fork in me. I'm done for tonight... Sleep well all!
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August 1, 2013 11:25 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
My cousin is in an obscure cult. I forget the name, it sounds like one of those self-help new age-y things but it's a cult. I searched for it on the 'is it a cult?' website, and yep, it's a cult. And not cheap! They make you pay for 'classes'...super expensive. Weird. And yet, he's super successful. They have a swimming pool but neither of them has ever been in it.
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August 1, 2013 11:25 PM - Partridge
GN, peeps.
August 1, 2013 11:26 PM - Cobble B. Hiller
Ah, right, my bad.

Ok, we're all toast. Nite to play WWF or fall asleep...
August 1, 2013 11:27 PM - Partridge
night, lady.
August 2, 2013 12:13 AM - Deleted
August 2, 2013 12:31 AM - ij
In college I learned cults were called new religious movements. I used to run home to my dorm to watch the daily coverage of the Waco standoff. Experienced hostage negotiators still bitterly remark about how innocents were being allowed to leave via basic negotiation techniquses until the Media Complex demanded a resolution and Reno caved.